So we have this question here: do you have to be hot to get a hot girlfriend?
At first this might sound as if it is a crazy question and that the answer is obvious, but do you want to know something? It’s not.
You see, people have this misconception that only hot people end up in a relationship with hot people, but how do you even define that word? They say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and that is most certainly true as we all see different things as being an attractive trait, so the most beautiful woman in the world to one person might not even break into the top 10 for somebody else just due to the shape of her face, or her build, hair, or anything else that makes up her as a person.
The exact same idea applies to guys, but it is also true that women have a tendency to look for other things in a potential partner rather than just how they look. Instead, things go much deeper than that and they look more at the person that lies inside, so an inner beauty if you like.
That gorgeous woman may find it impossible to resist a guy that is absolutely charming. She may be attracted to a guy who is very caring. She may prefer to be with a guy that can make her feel safe or make her laugh when she is sad. There are just so many things that make up the character of a person and of course with this it does not matter what they look like on the outside as it all lies within us. There is less emphasis on looks, whether your body is perfect, and whether or not you dress the part although clearly you should do this for yourself anyway.
Being with a hot woman does not mean that you have to be an Adonis. In fact, there are many examples of famous couples out there where you wonder how they ever got together when you see how gorgeous she is and how ordinary the guy is.
The answer is exactly what has been explained above.
So, in other words you do not have to be hot to get a hot girlfriend and do you want to know why you usually see two hot people together? It is simply because the guy has more self confidence to even talk to her in the first place without being intimidated.
Lets face it. If you think she is way out of your league and you never approach her, then of course you are going to get nowhere, but that is not your looks to blame, but rather it is just not having the courage to do something.